The Classic Male Depiction
The masculine physique, in art, has been characterized throughout the centuries by a focus and fascination on athleticism, strength and virility. The depiction of the male in an uber-masculine, super heroic context remains popular to this day and shows no signs of changing anytime soon… indeed little boys are aspiring to be like their favorite super heroes even as you read this. Being superman of course is a tall order to live up to, and in no area are men more concerned with their prowess, skill and potency than in the bedroom. As should be obvious, but might not be, becoming a bedroom blackbelt, a truly fantastic lover, begins with an understanding of one’s self.
Understanding the form, function and particulars of your own body is very important. Knowing your turn-ons and turn-offs, as well as the kinks, fetishes, fantasies, and hot spots of your own sexuality are paramount in becoming an excellent lover. Good communication is required for excellent sex. If you yourself don’t know what you like, what you don’t like, what feels good versus what feels great, then you will be very poorly equipped to communicate your needs and desires to a partner? Only once you know yourself can you venture out to know someone else.
Standing 5′10″, Aaron is proud to show off his average sized 5″ erection for us.
What we’ll be covering within ‘The Male Sexaul Animal’
To begin with we’ll have a tour of the of the male sexual apparatus with a focus on its parts and how they function, we’ll do some level setting around what average really is as well as a look at some anatomical facts and also some blackbelt tips for enhancing your sexual prowess, and of course we will fully explore all of the male erogenous zones.
As time progresses we will likely expand this section into a full exploration of general male anatomy, as you can’t really isolate the sexual animal from the animal as a whole, they are undeniable united, and a full treatment means treatment of the whole. For now however, in the interest of getting started: isolate, we must; learn and empower, we shall.
Cracking open the hood (Zipping down the fly)
As compared to the staggering complexity of the female sexual and reproductive anatomy (no fooling guys, we don’t have any apparatus that can even come close to sustaining a life or lives inside of us for nine months… and frankly we’re pretty happy about that… heaven help us where exactly would a baby find exit from anyway), still your dick, cock, schlong, savage and slippery one-eyed snake, or whatever you like to call your penis and the greater metro-region of your genital area (exterior and interior) is still a pretty sophisticated operation.
As an extreme over simplification it could be said that your penis is a combination balloon (that’s the erection) and water pistol (ejaculation, pre-cum, urination). Mechanically speaking there would be a degree of accuracy to such a claim, while even a loftier title of world’s most advanced self-filling balloon and fluid pistol lacks the proper gravity, as it still undercuts the myriad of functions that take place inside your genitals to accomplish the seemingly direct function of the organ.
So, for this we should be thankful. What is actually pretty complex and impressive under the hood, is simple enough for every guy to get the basics together even without a user manual (how’s that for design). And for going beyond the basics, you’ve got bedroomblackbelt.com. So without farther preface lets crack open the hood (or is it zip open the fly?) and see exactly how the engine works.
‘The Leaning Oak’ - Chair
If a tree falls in the forest, and there is no one to hear, it still indeed makes quite a sound. And the sounds you and your lover will make as you explore “The Leaning Oak” technique will no doubt rattle the rafters and wake the neighbors. Shown here as performed in a chair, “The Leaning Oak” is easily executed on a sofa, or on the edge of a bed. SEXX TRAINER
Exactly which family of sex move this nature inspired sexcapade belongs to is debatable. We consider it to be a variation of top-on-top, yet clearly it also involves the top being somewhat on his feet, and it requires a piece of furniture that elevates the bottom and also gives the top something sturdy to hold on to. Suffice to say, this is an excellent bit of variety to add to your arsenal of techniques.
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“Blue Belt” moves are not overly difficult, but are not recommended for a virgin’s first time on the matt either. Blue Belts are Developing Students. They possess basic sexual skill, good common sense, and strong body-awareness.
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This move evokes the image of an oak tree, timeless and powerful, leaning strongly to one side, perhaps leaning into a splendid daylight.
(A) The Oak is your body, which will lean sharply toward your partner to produce a most unusual and exciting angle for adventurous sex. (B) Is the line of your erection, which can be imagined as a hardy branch.
Like “The Splendid Daylight” or a bush into which the branch of the oak plunges, the bottom has an easy role for the duration of this move, he simply makes himself comfortable and his anus accessable.
Fuck Em Low
Stance Code: Prone Stance – High Trunk Elevation – Medium Wing Span
In this isolation we are looking at the prone stance to achieve a low penetration entry. By prone we mean that the male is angled as if laying on his stomach. His trunk is in high elevation, which is to say he is propped up on locked out arms. His legs are enjoying a medium wing span, which is to say they are a bit more than shoulder width apart.
When we look at this stance in isolation we most quickly identify it with being the male component of a missionary style sex position, this is certainly the most common implementation of this stance, but it is also by no means the only implementation. There are many opportunities in which your body can find this stance and unleash these thrusting techniques. So remember to think outside of the box.
Pevlic Thrusting Code: Sliding Tilt
The “Sliding Tilt” is accomplished by mixing piston style thrusting, which creates the sliding back and forth motion with pelvic tilt thrusting for accent, punctuation and to give full control of the penetration depth. The sliding tilt is extremely effective for producing a low grinding entry.
This is a marvelous stance and thrust for missionary sex, and also doggie sex. This technique is especially good for when you are just getting into the grove, right after foreplay or as when foreplay is being skipped. Low entry penetration is particularly effective for allowing the vagina to expand and lubricate.
This stance and thrust are also an effective approach for attempting to find and hit your lady’s A-Spot (Anterior Fornix) which is a space on the upper wall of the vaginal tunnel located between the G-Spot just before and above the cervix. This magic button when stimulated triggers vaginal lubrication and can produce fantastic orgasms.
Running Man Spoon Sex Position
The “Modified” aka “Running Man Spoon”, as featured in our Pelvic Thrusting 101 article has generated quite a bit of interest for the fact that it allows a level of vigorous energetic thrusting that is not typically associated with the spoon position. Indeed, when most people think of the spoon position it is generally a vision of bodies cradled together with a slow writhing tempo that leaps to mind.
The image emblazoned on our mind’s eye is the “Classic ‘Cradle Style’ Spoon”, which is the way the spoon position is most frequently depicted in the mainstream media, and it’s a perfect fit for those nights when one or both partners it too tired for any Cirque De Sole acrobatics in the bedroom, and they’re in the mood for a nice round of lazy lovemaking. That said, there is much more potential to the spoon than just the “Cradle”, and as you already know here at bedroom black belt we are all about unlocking all of our lovemaking potential.
The “Modified” aka “Running Man Spoon” places the male in an almost running posture on his side and creates a perfect angle for pelvic tilt style thrusting. How energetic you make these thrusts is completely up to you and the music in your hips. As seen in the video above a lady’s trusty vibrator hasn’t got even the slightest edge on a black belt boy on a mission for motion in this excellent sex position. So spice up your spoon moves tonight, and let the good vibrations move you both.
Classic Missionary
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Yes, it’s the granddaddy of all sex positions, the move that each and every one of us is most likely to lose our virginity to. Given the simplicity of the “” technique, and also the intimacy that it offers, it’s no wonder it’s most everyone’s first move. Just because it was your first does not mean it’s beyond being new again, and just because it’s basic does not mean you can’t bring your own style too it.
Rhythm, speed, and thrusting technique (and who is doing the thrusting) can all be used to tweak this or any sex move. Shown in the video above, Tae stats off with a medium pace, but picks it up and lays down the lead for Julie with a pounding “rough-n-tuff” rhythm, his speed becomes fast, and the thrusting style is primarily piston, with some pivot…
Note: This adaptation of “Classic Missionary” has the male with his torso elevated, the weight of his upper body supported by his arms (palms flat), his ass raised, ready to drop and raise again, as the weight of his lower body is primarily supported by his knees. He is neither in a prone stance or a kneeling stance, but somewhere between the two, and this creates an excellent angle for mobility and deep thrusting.
…and the results are “Classic Missionary” with a deeper acent that makes for some very intense lovemaking.
Ride A Cowboy
Save a horse, ride a cowboy, go the lyrics of the well known song… and we do mean ride him hard. In fact ladies, when you unleash “The Amazon” on your man you’ll not only be saving a horse, but you can toss out your thigh master too, because you’ll be getting a killer workout while having a sexplosive good time.
“The Amazon” is from the woman-on-top, family of moves, specifically it’s a cowgirl variation that gets the ladies off their knees and into a warrior-woman squat. Make no mistake, guys love it when their lady slams them with this move… and to be clear we do mean slam. “The Amazon” is a move perfect for pounding, and it flips the script by allowing the female to control the pounding action. Indeed, attempting to do this move very slowly makes it even more of a workout for the quads.
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Bobbing for pussy
More of a sex game perhaps, than a sex position, “Bobbing for P”, which like the old hip-hop song OPP has a double meaning depending on who exactly is doing the bobbing, finds us not bobbing for apples but bobbing for PUSSY or PENIS, depending on our preferences, and this game is terrific fun.
The practice of cutting off oxygen to the brain while being in a state of sexual excitement is known to generate a high. A number of practices exist that facilitate this rather risky approach to euphoria, and these are generally classified under the term erotic asphyxiation. It is important to note that these practices are generally quite dangerous, but “Bobbing for P” is an awesome game that combines holding your breath with the goal of delivering oral sex, and just like bobbing for apples, you aren’t going to keep you face under water any longer than your lungs can handle, so it’s safe and fun.
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